3 Useful Tips for Dating After 30
Many think that dating is for the young at heart only, but it is not. If you are 30 and is single, you have the same right to enjoy dating with the person you choose – may it be of your age, older or younger. In fact, dating over 30 is actually a good thing because this age is a sign that you are matured enough to get serious with relationships. Also, there is not much of a difference when you date at a young or old age because it is the same dating. If there would be, it may be that you have a better ‘taste’ as to where and how you might want this event should turn out. And to help you decide, below are some tips you can consider when going out over 30.
1.Be yourself. Going out for the first time when you are 30 is just the same when you go out when you are younger – you need to make an impression. But while this may seem a superficial thing, you actually don’t have to pretend to make a lasting impression. You simply need to let yourself shine and see how your date is accepting you just the way you are. This is going to be crucial but you need to give it a try because at this age, you are no longer looking for someone to show off but someone you can be with forever. If the person cannot accept you because you are introvert, then you don’t have to become a different person for the person.
2.Stay focused and listen. Going on a date means a little time out, talking about yourselves, your dreams and everything that comes into mind. But while you wanted to make sure that your date gets to know you on a very personal level, you also need to put in mind that there are two people in this date so make sure that you give your date time and space to talk too. And that also means that you should listen intently with what your date is talking about. In the end, you will be happy you did because you are able to know your date the same way that your date knew you at that level.
3.Be vulnerable. People who date over 30 is no longer looking for a fling or a one night stand. If there is one thing that is a fact about these people is that they are already ready to say “I do” to that one person, and you are no different. The reason you are going out tonight and the night after, and the night after that is to find ‘the one’. So be yourself, get to know that person well by listening and make sure to show your vulnerable side. People are bound to get attached with others when they see their vulnerability so bank on this.
Consider all these tips when dating after 30 and see that they all work to your advantage.